In a recent post, I received a number of comments about words that make me think. I have a few words to add to that list, and will make another post when I have had a chance to think more on the "why" as well as the what but I wanted to respond to a comment left on my post:
Abortion makes me think bad thoughts.
Your blog seemed so cool until I saw your ‘blog links’ and abortionclinicdays was listed there. For one who wants to do no harm to a woman in this over medicalized day and age, supporting messing with her cervix and removing a living being, long before it’s time, seems antithetical to midwifery. Not to mention the very misogynistic notion of artificial medical contraception which abortion providers count on to fail in order to fulfill their quotas of extinguished human beings who will never get a chance to ‘choose’ anything.
This, rightly so, made me think. What is it about abortion that fits in with my approach to women and pregnancy and birth and motherhood and choice and… oh wait, that it’s right there. All of those things are tied together and the "choice" bit means, to me, choice about whether to continue with a pregnancy for WHATEVER reasons. Afterall - who am I to judge?
I believe that a woman has a choice regarding her body and her pregnancy. Regardless of what analogie I use here, I am screwed, so I won’t - I’ll just state that I believe in a woman’s right to autonomy and that until the fetus can survive outside of its womb, it has no inate right to life and therefore abortion is not "wrong". I may be making a rod for my back for posting this but as a midwife, sometimes I will come across discussions with women about contraception, about life choices, about managing fertility and also about abortion - or early induction to birth a babe not meant for this world, or supporting a woman through the birth of her child who has already passed.
I am a woman and I have womanly friends, some of whom have had abortions and some of whom have come to me for advice about them, just as they have about IUCDs and nappy rash and all sorts of things. I celebrate this aspect of it and am open minded about these things! Just as I support a woman’s right to choose where she births, so I also support her right to decide IF she births.
I find it interesting that my commenter thinks that abortion is antithetical to midwifery. If my ethics are surrounded by respect for autonomy, beneficence, non-maleficence, and justice, how is supporting choice for reproductive decisions the antithesis of midwifery? Do you, dear reader, consider it outside my balliwick as a midwife? Should I not have an opinion because I am training to bring life into this world?
If you’ve not had a chance to read the blog which the commenter was upset by, please go and do so. It is amazing how not black and white the whole issue is and while in some ways the blog can be confronting and challenging, it is always an insightful read. My commenter here is open about her religious convictions and if she has not already gone and read ACD, she should as most of the stories talk about the women trying to reconcile their choice with their faith - a seemingly impossible task but one which they do achieve to varying degrees.
The part about relying on a failure to achieve a quota seems a little left-field and yes, contraception is not 100% reliable but given that ACD is an American site and the situation for abortion providers over there is horrible and confronting, I’m thinking that people working there don’t do it for giggles or the money. They do it because they want to - also for their own reasons.
Next time: why I think we should stop making such a fuss about pregnant women, my views on the China/Tibet/Olympics triad, and what I had for dinner.